Financial Crisis, let's see it from positive side!!

Yesterday a friend of mine was talking to me about how bad his financial condition this year. He got layoff and now he is worrying on how he can

I know there are a lot of people in the world who experience the sustain the whole family especially it’s near Christmas time. same thing as my friend in this financial crisis, where everything goes bad and crashing down. But let us see it from other point of view; this thing might happen for the good reason.

You know that when you’re in your worst condition you can know your closest family members, or friends, or your close person heart, whether they really care about you or just faking it all this time. As I said to my friend, true friends are the one who stays with you, support you, and console you in your worst condition.  Next is your family, in this hard time you can really know what your family members like wife/husband, your children thinking about you, whether they are still loyal and support you all the time or they only care about your money. So now you can know who your really best friends are, and also now you can know who you can depend on.

Isn’t it good to know who are really good to you?

Other good thing we can experience from this condition is now you have more free time to spend with your family. This is something you have not a chance to do before. So rather than whining all the time, stressing your head with the depression, why don’t you spend time with your family, play with your children, so they are happy and love you more, or be together with your husband or wife, learn your spouse better so you can understand each other more. Just think this as a vacation from your work, spend a quality time, maybe this is the reason for all of this to happen.

One more thing you can do in this condition, you can sit down, relax your minds, reflect on yourself. I’m sure most of us never have time to reflect on ourselves, since usually our life pretty much like this we get up, go to work, eat, work again, go back home and sleep. Just relax, go to the park, enjoy yourself, reflect on yourself, then I guarantee you can come with new idea to life your live or at least see the world better.

So be grateful and see the positive side in every situation.

Remember, YOUR HAPPINESS IS ON YOUR OWN MIND, NOT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE TOLD YOU!!

Best Regard

Sleeping Wiseman

Matters of Giving

Christmas time is near, and as usual it's charity time. 

People usually donate money or give something to charity, church or directly to poor people (despite we are in the middle of monetary crisis now).  It's a good thing to do since Christmas is symbol of kindness, caring and loving. BUT there is a problem usually occurs when people do charity. This problem commonly overlooked by people and mostly this happen because of the misconception or lack of knowledge. 

Basically nothing is wrong with the act of giving or charity, the problem lies in how most people do it. Nowadays I can see that people usually give something and they write their name on it, for example you donate to charity organization and they write your name clearly at the boards or papers or even on television. People like to get their name known when they give something, and that's the problem. So is true that what you want is to get fame, to make everyone know that you're good people, you're rich, you're better than who doesn't give? ask your heart for the answer. If you answer no, then you can change, because now you know the truth. 

If you say, I there is no way to not write my name because it's a requirement in the charity place or etc. etc. Remember that you can use your initial, or in the worst case you can explain to other people so they also know the truth. to be honest, nothing impossible, when there's a will, there's a way.

Even the bible wrote this

Matthew 6

Giving to the Needy

 ¹"Be careful not to do your 'acts of righteousness' before men, to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven.  ²"So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. ³But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, ⁴so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.

So if your intention when giving donation or charity is to help people, then you should consider this thing again, but if your intention when giving donation or charity is to get fame, then I can speak no more. 

Best Regard

Sleeping Wiseman

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Do you guarantee everything you advised will work?
NO. No one can guarantee that everything will work 100% as we want except our Father in heaven.


Do  you responsible for everything you advised?
NO. of course nobody, especially me, wants something liked that happen but if something turn out bad happen, it’s not my responsibility, but I’ll try to help as much as I can, sincerely.





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Sleeping Wiseman

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