You Reap What You Sow

Few days ago in the train I heard other people were talking about Tiger Wood, they said that they think Tiger Wood is a great person until the news told us different story. So today I want to talk about think before you act, and in this case Tiger Wood can be a perfect example.

In my view, I think everyone should think as many times as possible before they make decision in their life, and don’t let your emotion or feeling cloud your judgment on your decision making, instead use your logic and science to do decision making since it’s more reliable. But in real life, it’s very hard to do, most of the time we usually follow our emotion or feeling to decide something. So to be more logical or scientific in decision making I suggest you to be patient, don’t be hasty in making decision unless it’s in emergency condition, because usually we need some time for our to emotion cool off and we can think clearer, next take all the time you need, make sure your decision is the best for you.  This way we can reduce the risk of making wrong decision greatly.

Other important thing to mind is that we need to train our self control. Self control is very important, especially if you’re are an important person like public figure, because the more success you are, the more temptations you will get and you will need to resist most of it. Most of us, again, have a very weak self control, making us easy to be tempted and fall into something wrong, because evil is lurking around our shadow, waiting us to show our weakness and prey as there is an opening. Usually when we did something wrong, we didn’t directly affected by it, instead the impact happen later in the future, when we unaware, a strike from the back. So how we can improve our self control and fight all those temptations? Well, the simple way is plant on your mind that everything bad you do will surely destroy your future, and also thinks what will happen to your spouse, children, families and friends who trusted you so much. Just like Tiger Wood case, before the scandal he has a good life, $100mill per year only from endorsement and much more, happy family, good public image, but all of that vanished in the blink of an eye, and soon after that trouble keep coming one after another. In the end now he got nothing, no endorsement, broken family, and not only that, he also makes the stock price of the company which endorsed him falls, so this is like a chain reaction.

One last thing, do NOT ever think you can outsmart the evil, it’s better to stay away as far as you can, don’t give any opening in your life. 

Remember you can hide rotten thing, but sooner or later people will sniff out the scent, because you can’t hide the scent.

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Sleeping Wiseman

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! What's winter mean for Christmas

Hi I just want to say MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL OF YOU.

Some people always asking or even some other people are whining why Christmas is always cold, and full of snow, how great it is in southern country when in this time of year they have summer. But for me the best Christmas is when it's in the cold winter! Why?

Let me give you the answer behind the meaning Christmas in winter is the best.

Because Christmas is the time for us to share the WARMTH of our love, passion, and care towards other people that we love. Share the warmth by helping others, by meet all of our families again, by hugging your spouse n children, it's the warmth. And, you know, the warmth only feel best at the coldest time. So the one we love can know how we feel towards them by giving the warmth of our heart to them in the coldest time of the year.

Just think what Christmas would like when it's happen in summer... It's hot already and how can we share our warmth, so always be grateful for what we have. 

So just like I said, always see things from the positive side... :D

and once more, have a MERRY n WARM CHRISTMAS!!!

Best Regards

Sleeping Wiseman

Financial Crisis, let's see it from positive side!!

Yesterday a friend of mine was talking to me about how bad his financial condition this year. He got layoff and now he is worrying on how he can

I know there are a lot of people in the world who experience the sustain the whole family especially it’s near Christmas time. same thing as my friend in this financial crisis, where everything goes bad and crashing down. But let us see it from other point of view; this thing might happen for the good reason.

You know that when you’re in your worst condition you can know your closest family members, or friends, or your close person heart, whether they really care about you or just faking it all this time. As I said to my friend, true friends are the one who stays with you, support you, and console you in your worst condition.  Next is your family, in this hard time you can really know what your family members like wife/husband, your children thinking about you, whether they are still loyal and support you all the time or they only care about your money. So now you can know who your really best friends are, and also now you can know who you can depend on.

Isn’t it good to know who are really good to you?

Other good thing we can experience from this condition is now you have more free time to spend with your family. This is something you have not a chance to do before. So rather than whining all the time, stressing your head with the depression, why don’t you spend time with your family, play with your children, so they are happy and love you more, or be together with your husband or wife, learn your spouse better so you can understand each other more. Just think this as a vacation from your work, spend a quality time, maybe this is the reason for all of this to happen.

One more thing you can do in this condition, you can sit down, relax your minds, reflect on yourself. I’m sure most of us never have time to reflect on ourselves, since usually our life pretty much like this we get up, go to work, eat, work again, go back home and sleep. Just relax, go to the park, enjoy yourself, reflect on yourself, then I guarantee you can come with new idea to life your live or at least see the world better.

So be grateful and see the positive side in every situation.

Remember, YOUR HAPPINESS IS ON YOUR OWN MIND, NOT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE TOLD YOU!!

Best Regard

Sleeping Wiseman

Matters of Giving

Christmas time is near, and as usual it's charity time. 

People usually donate money or give something to charity, church or directly to poor people (despite we are in the middle of monetary crisis now).  It's a good thing to do since Christmas is symbol of kindness, caring and loving. BUT there is a problem usually occurs when people do charity. This problem commonly overlooked by people and mostly this happen because of the misconception or lack of knowledge. 

Basically nothing is wrong with the act of giving or charity, the problem lies in how most people do it. Nowadays I can see that people usually give something and they write their name on it, for example you donate to charity organization and they write your name clearly at the boards or papers or even on television. People like to get their name known when they give something, and that's the problem. So is true that what you want is to get fame, to make everyone know that you're good people, you're rich, you're better than who doesn't give? ask your heart for the answer. If you answer no, then you can change, because now you know the truth. 

If you say, I there is no way to not write my name because it's a requirement in the charity place or etc. etc. Remember that you can use your initial, or in the worst case you can explain to other people so they also know the truth. to be honest, nothing impossible, when there's a will, there's a way.

Even the bible wrote this

Matthew 6

Giving to the Needy

 ¹"Be careful not to do your 'acts of righteousness' before men, to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven.  ²"So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. ³But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, ⁴so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.

So if your intention when giving donation or charity is to help people, then you should consider this thing again, but if your intention when giving donation or charity is to get fame, then I can speak no more. 

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Sleeping Wiseman

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NO. of course nobody, especially me, wants something liked that happen but if something turn out bad happen, it’s not my responsibility, but I’ll try to help as much as I can, sincerely.





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